The strangest things in life happens when you are not looking...
I'm up at this ungodly hour, yup, you'll seldom or prob almost never see me online at 7 plus in the morning when i slept at 4 plus just hours ago. Anyway, nonsense aside. Reason: thought i had missed tutorial balloting on CORS so decided to come online early and see which crap tutorial slot i can get. While waiting for CORS to open (when i eventually found out that there seems to be no tutorial balloting going on) i decided to browse through the blogs of friends i'm no longer in contact with. My primary school friend's blog came as a shock. Only once in a blue moon that i actually read her blog and guess what. She's engaged. She's 21, he's 25. They've been together for about 1 yr plus and have their fair share of ups and downs. Her mum took it relatively well.
She used to be one of my "best friend" in primary school until she did something that was really low and till now, i don't understand why she did it. Didn't know why it mattered so much during that time. But i guess when you are that age and more or less sheltered from all the troubles in life, a little betrayal seems too much to handle. Anyway, it's kinda sad to have to find out about ur friend through her blog. I wished things didn't turn out the way they did and we didn't drift apart. Maybe, i would be the one whom she call when she got engaged. =) oh well.
I cannot imagine getting engaged at 21 and moving in with the bf. That's so young! Not to mention the sorry fact that i'm still happily unattached. But how much can you know a person in just 1 year? How much can you trust a person in just 1 year? Is 1 year enough to prevent a lifetime of unhappiness, of betrayals? Considering her parents has split up when she was in primary school and having to see her mum in constant anguish with all the failed relationships with bastards who are prone to violence, i would think that she is even more adverse to commitment.On the other hand, it might actually be this very reason for her to want to hang on a good guy when he's so in love with her. Don't misunderstand me, i wish her well and i'm glad she's happy. What are the chances of finding a good guy and keeping him in these times? Haha... =P
